The ABC's Of Relationships

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The ABC's Of Relationships

Relationships are complex spaces. Everyone wish it were as easy as the learning the alphabets. Relationships are like investments. The more you put in, the more you can get back. Relationships should be always healthy, happy and satisfying. Everyone's relationship is unique in their own way. But there are some things that good and healthy relationships have in common. Knowing the basics keeps us meaningful, fulfilling and exciting in both happiness and sadness. To make a fabulous relationships, the alphabetize would be helpful

Attitude is everything. If you want it work, it will.
Bonding is crucial to a lifetime of togetherness. Find common interests and spend time sharing lives. 

Caring for each other. When you know someone cares, you want to stay there.
Dancing, there is something so magical about holding someone you care about and  moving to music. Dance with love and dance for love.

Excitement, a healthy dose of it in spurts  certainly doesn't hurt.
Flirtation is absolutely essential to keep the magic alive between partners. (Flirt with each other, not others)
Give and take; It's awful when only one is just a giver and other is a taker. It has to be a mix of both.
Happy; Everyone loves to be around a happy person. Count your blessings and radiate happiness.
Interesting; Relationships start stagnating and go into a rut. Hence, it's important to keep things alive and stimulating.

 Joking around; Life is so stressful. It's so lovely to be around someone who is playful on occasions to beat the blues and monotony. Don't look for such person, be the one.
Kamasutra; When sex gets boring, the warning bells begin to ring. Keep changing your routine.
Love and laughter are as essential as sunshine and oxygen to everyone, especially relationships.
Masala; it's important to keep things spicy. Be it your sex life or dressing sense.Memories! Be always on the lookout to celebrate anniversaries, affirming your past history and get concrete symbols to help you to remember.
Needs! Be aware of your partner’s physical, mental and spiritual needs, and be prepared to share what your needs are as well. No communication leads to rifts. Communicate, update and share.
Orgasm; Remember, it's not just for men. A satisfied women is a key ingredient for a happy relationship, happy home and life.
Positivity.You should always have positive attitude and you'll be much easier to live.
Quietness.You do not have to fill all the spaces with words, just be together, and enjoy each others presence.
Respect must be commanded, not demanded, so be worthy of it.
Sexy. Feel it, be it, emit it. Make your partner want and desire you constantly, if not in public, then certainly in the confines of your four walls.
Touch and Time. Be it hugs, holding hands, a massage or cuddles, physical connection on a constant basis, creates a loving environment. Don't be so busy. Spend quality time with each other and show how mush you value them by giving their priority.

Undivided attention. Relationships fall prey to distractions of technology, so disconnect from all devices and spend time just connecting with each other.
Vacations. Get out of the rut and fill your family albums with happy memories, replenish your body and spend quality fun time together. Do not be lazy.

Wooing each other constantly is essential to never letting the flame die out. Yes its effort, but it’s really worth it.
X is for eX factor. Put the past behind you. Don’t let a ‘whatever’ or a ‘whoever’ in your or your partners past affect your current relationship. It’s ridiculous to be in the present, planning a future and looking backwards.
Yes. It’s a wonderful word that shows an open and eager mind. Try new things, be open to new experiences. Say ''Yes''.

Zest for life! Don’t accept mediocrity, give it all you have got, aim for the stars and refuse to accept second best.
Use these tools to always bring about the best in yourself and your relationship.

The ABC’s have been all about what to do, rather than what to avoid, because you effect positive change when you do positive things.
Good luck!